What would you like to say to VJ

7/10/2020

72 Comments

Bianca Restadius

7/12/2020 12:49:29 pm

Sending prayers and ❤️❤️

Ratnam Kumaran

7/15/2020 02:09:28 pm

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May Wijendra rest in peace.

Daryl Gill

7/21/2020 01:48:32 pm

Thank you for all the welcoming, big hearted and loving times you allowed me into your home and into the life of your family. From assisting me with my car making my hour way drive out. To making me feel part of the family while receiving some of your old work shirts for my new job. I appreciate everything you have done being a great friend, father and family member to many who have met you. You will be missed immensely and will not be forgotten. Love you Vj.

Judy Sutherland

7/28/2020 07:07:00 am

May God Bless you and yours now and always.

Jo Ann Duffy

7/29/2020 07:40:13 am

So sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. (Former TWA)

Thava and Malini Thavasingam

7/12/2020 06:12:22 pm

Thinking of you, wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain.
With all our love. God bless

Lilian Sellahewa

7/12/2020 06:16:28 pm

Losing the one you love is very hard. And so we are praying for peace for comfort and sweet memories. Please accept our condolences.
Indire Aunty and family

Arsenio Hernández link

7/12/2020 06:22:43 pm

My condolences to the entire family.

VJ was a great man!

I always looked forward to his friendly smile and firm handshake at 7:30 mass.

Rest easy my friend!

God speed VJ

Asoka and Anomi Abeydeera

7/12/2020 06:24:20 pm

We are very saddened to hear of the loss of Wije. Please accept our deepest and heartfelt condolences.

Leslie Hernandez

7/12/2020 06:37:11 pm

Sending all the family my most sincerest condolences. Before Sunday mass VJ always greeted me with a warm smile and hug. He will truly be missed. May he rest in eternal peace.

Ish De La Torre Hernandez

7/12/2020 07:02:27 pm

May our Lord bless and comfort your family during this time of grief. I extend my deepest sympathies to your family. I will never forget VJ and I pray the soul of VJ is at peace with our Heavenly Father.

Danielle Restadius

7/12/2020 07:03:04 pm

So sad for your loss. You all are in my prayers and thoughts.

Rick De La Torre

7/12/2020 07:03:19 pm

I don't know where to start...I am both in shock and heartbroken with VJ's passing. I will miss him greatly. Our most sincere condolences to the entire Dalpathado family. He was a great man who was always willing to lend a helping hand. A true friend, a pleasure to be in company with and his loyalty goes unquestioned. Life won't be the same without him...Rest in peace my brother, until we meet again.

De La Torre family

Geri Neri

7/22/2020 09:59:48 pm

Will sure miss our Churro Man . The sweetest and loving guy. Rest in peace VJ in the love of our Lord and the Blessed Mother .

Marty Avalos

7/12/2020 07:03:33 pm

My heart goes out to VJ and family. He was a kind, hard working man and good friend. I don't think my cars will ever run as great as VJ had them running.

Mahesh & Cilla

7/12/2020 07:16:02 pm

Our deepest condolences to the family. May god rest his soul in peace.He was definately kind and generous man . He will be truely missed.

Ernesto Literte

7/12/2020 07:21:43 pm

Words are not enough for what he has done as a Brother knight ,a friend a family man and most of all an outstanding Catholic gentleman
We will greatly missed his active participation in many activities
My prayers for him and his family
Vivat Jesu

Saluja Ratnayake

7/12/2020 07:47:22 pm

We are very saddened about his loss.VJ aiya will be always in our hearts. I deeply pray that may his soul rest in peace. Our deepest and sincerest condolences to the family.

Lalindra Dalpathado

7/12/2020 08:16:00 pm

I will miss you, my brother VJ, and I am happy I got to see you before you had to go.
Love, Lalindra

My condolences to the family.

Abner Espanola

7/12/2020 08:17:08 pm

Our deepest condolence to the Dalphatado Family. Eternal Rest grant to VJ O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace

Helen AlladoV

7/12/2020 08:44:51 pm

VJ will be missed. My prayers for the family.

Marlon Castillo

7/12/2020 10:22:33 pm

My heart goes out to VJ and his family. He was a kind, hard working man and good person in all aspects. He genuinely loved to help people. I remember the days I would come over to visit Sean and Rosita, he always welcomed me with a smile and was very personable and genuinely nice. I am saddened to hear of his sudden passing and the loss of the Dalpathado family, prayers out to you during this difficult times.

Gene Welch

7/13/2020 09:30:30 am

Prie (and family): We are saddened to hear about VJ's passing. Tammy and I were fortunate to visit with you and VJ last month, and we commented on how well VJ looked. We are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We hold on to the good memories of you two overt the years. May God comfort you through this time of grieving.

Marylee Guerrero

7/13/2020 11:30:10 am

I am very sorry to hear of the loss of VJ. Prie, I used to love seeing his nice smile when he would come by our work. Love to you and your family

Ray and Jackie

7/13/2020 01:34:58 pm

We are terribly sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. ❤️

Jamie Jasper

7/13/2020 03:48:01 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. VJ was a very sweet man with a wonderful sense of humor. I will never forget how he got me out of a terrible jam by making my old Camry run like new. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time. If you need anything, you know I am always here. Love you

Nirmalie ( Niru) Fernando

7/13/2020 03:49:29 pm

I am in total shock ! My Deepest Sympathies and Heartfelt
Condolences to All the Family. My Prayers are with you.
May VJ’s Soul Rest In The Peace and Safety of The Lord.
May Jesus Comfort The Family .

Niru Fernando - London UK

Renuka VeLayuthan GOONATILLAKE

7/13/2020 04:16:28 pm

Our Sincere condolences to wijendra aiya’s family. It was a shock to hear the demise of Wijendra aiya I had known him since my school days we have been traveling to school together with Teny aiya from Hendala to wellawatte. May his beautiful soul Rest In Peace.

Jehan Fernando

7/13/2020 04:42:05 pm

R.I.P. Wijey

Teresa Owens

7/28/2020 08:18:39 am

So sorry to hear of your loss Prie, sending prayers to you and your family.

Rae Desilva

7/13/2020 05:26:06 pm

Brother Wije,
I am sorry we did not get to spend much time with you and your family. you are now in your eternal home in Heaven and we rejoice as you have passed from death to Life. To the family, you all look so happy together. Love you all and may God Bless all of you abundantly.
Rae,Anita and Raymond
Oregon

Rohan Fernando

7/13/2020 05:53:53 pm

VJ was the youngest of our clan (11 cousins) who grew up in Sri Lanka. I am filled with lots of happy memories. I really got to know the man when I visited Sri Lanka in 1980. He has always been his own man. My wife reminded me of the time we visited in L.A and and we were at Burbank Grand prix, we were driving as fast as we can but, not VJ he had his left arm down the door and just going for a Sunday drive. That image is burned into my memory.
I am so glad I got to talk him on fathers day. He sounded so happy and healthy.
Prie, shawn, Sheanna (excuse my spelling) my thoughts are with you and rest of our expanded family.
You rest there VJ, my heart is heavy and you will always will be in my memory
Love
Rohan and Michelle Fernando

Susan Farma

7/13/2020 06:04:34 pm

I will always remember VJ as the most upbeat guy. He would get a twinkle in his eye before he would say something that would make you laugh. My heart is broken for Pri, Sean, Shaw and all of the folks who cared so much for a terrific person.

Prince Borado

7/13/2020 07:44:36 pm

My deepest condolences to Dalpathado family. VJ has always be there for me and always joking around and laughing. He was always supporting our youth ministry and making sure we were good growing up. Thank you Veeg for everything you did. You will be missed.

Pam & Jim

7/13/2020 09:03:02 pm

Rest in peace Wije. Go with God

Love,

Pam & Jim

Romeish de Mel

7/14/2020 05:34:34 am

Absolutely shocking news. My heartfelt and deepest sympathies to the family.
I remember our school days and being on the same athletic team. You were always a humble and very unassuming soul.
Rest easy bro, till we meet again 😢

Jerome Karunaratne

7/14/2020 07:07:06 am

May your soul Rest In Peace VJ
I’m glad I had the opportunity to speak to you one month ago. You were such a talented athlete who was so exciting to watch. You will be remembered by all of us.

Tracy Tuinei

7/14/2020 07:38:18 am

This is absolutely shocking and I am deeply saddened by the news of Vj passing. Our thoughts and Prayers for you guys at this time. Godfather to my daughter Katia who is also in shock of Papa Vj passing. Such a sweet an hardworking man always can count on him for anything. Words can't express what an awesome person you were. What a Blessing and Honor it was to know you and may you be flying high with God's Angel's. Rest in Peace Papa VJ.

Belinda Guerrero-Villalobos

7/14/2020 06:42:28 pm

May Gods peace always remain with your loved ones....At peace knowing you are good friends with Our Lord, please continue to pray for us. Pax Christi +++

The Guerrero-Villalobos Family

Virgil Rabe

7/14/2020 07:29:45 pm

His had a high spirit when I saw him last. He took care of my car on the 2nd. I was sad to learn from SK John Perez about his death this morning. He has been and always will be missed. R. I. P.

Neomal & Melanie Jayawardena

7/14/2020 08:09:37 pm

Unexpected sad news. Our heartfelt condolences go out to Pri and family. Thoughts & prayers are with all. May VJ’s soul Rest In Peace..

Maury Benemie

7/14/2020 09:57:28 pm

Sincere condolences to the family. It was an honor and privilege to know VJ. May God bless his soul.

Kryshani

7/15/2020 05:53:15 am

It is sad to think that VJ is no longer with us. He was a nice man; kind, caring and always ready to help others. He was devoted to his family and friends. As a member of the Knights of Colombus, he worked hard for the church and his local community. He will be fondly remembered and missed. May he rest in peace.

Ravindu Perera

7/15/2020 06:14:45 am

VJ uncle was one of the most funniest people we've ever met. Our trip to America wouldn't have been filled with entertainment and joy if not for him. From stories about Rocky the German Shepherd to all the entertaining jokes, VJ is definitely one of a kind.Our thoughts and prayers are with aunty Prie, Shawn ayyiya and Sheanna akki.May uncle Vj's soul rest in peace.

Ravindu and Danidu.

Alex Diaz

7/15/2020 12:21:51 pm

We are heartbroken for his family at the loss. We express our deepest condolences. We'll miss his random waves from the little black truck, his extensive auto knowledge, and his "back home" stories. My favorite memory will be him inviting me over to have Grandma teach me how to make mango chutney for a fusion cooking competition I had. My dad took it particularly hard as VJ was one his best KofC buddies. VJ kept me company while I recovered from Leukemia many days at Kaiser, and I forever will be grateful. May God welcome him warmly and help his family heal.

Raquel orlando and family Fuentes

7/15/2020 02:40:09 pm

There's no words that i can say that can heal this pain for Pri and family bt vj made sure u didnt leave them alone. Our deepest condolences to the Dalpathado Family and plesse know that you can count with our family... VJ You treated everyone like we had been friends for ever. Vj you always had a friendly smile and kind words we saw you as family!
I will always remember how you help my dad get me a car and put in the engine
How you showed me the diference from glow plugs and spark plugs and the easiest way to change them! Every sunday churro sale you always had a joke a game or something fun to do so work wouldn't seem as work..
So many good times so many memories that will always remind me the awesome person you were!
You are and will always be an incredible person always humble and ready to help!
Even after we moved you always stayed in touch thank you for that!
We will pray so that God may give your family the strength for this to pass and for you to reast easy my friend! RIP VJ ✝️❤ til we meet again dear friend! ❤✝️

Chris Ferdinando

7/15/2020 02:57:29 pm

Too young to leave this world Wijendra. You were so happy when you returned from hospital after your operation. God gave you a short lease of life. RIP Wije 🙏🙏
Deepest sympathies to you all in the Dalpathado family.

Neil Tuupo

7/15/2020 06:48:15 pm

To my kids, you’ll always be Papa VJ. To my wife, you’ll always be our greatest neighbor. And from me to, you’ll always be my mentor, friend, brother and the most humble and blessing man I know. Since I moved up here in 1996 from Hawaii and join St Philomena, I will never forget the very first day we met. It was the old church (hall now) and you always stood at the back side entrance on the right door way. White button up long sleeve dress shirt, with the top 5 buttons opened haha. Everyday I go to work, my route is always in front of your house. I’d see you like 80% of the times early morning and we’ll chat before I go off to work. I’ll still be taking that same route and I’ll always look out my window to see you. We love you Papa VJ. Until we meet again, watch over us from up above. Don’t drink too much up there ok haha.

Sanjay Rathnayake

7/15/2020 08:42:10 pm

Sending my sincere condolences to all the family. His lost has made us really shocked. May his soul rest in peace.

Sherene Fernando

7/15/2020 10:29:29 pm

Dearest cousin brother Wije,
Thank you for making me laugh everytime we met, which was not often enough. I can still hear your voice saying "Sherry Akki" even from your very young days. We share a great love of dogs. I see your beautiful smile when I think of you. I will miss you terribly and I Thank God for being able to talk to you before you left on your journey back to our precious Lord.
With much Love cousin!
Sherry

Joyce Edmund

7/16/2020 07:10:46 pm

Thank you VJ for being part of a Wonderful family who have been a GREAT FRIEND to me since I delivered both Sean and Shehana at Kaiser WLA all those years ago. You and Prie never failed to send me a picture of the whole family EVERY YEAR since those baby's were born. I love you. Rest in peace my friend. Prie lean on your faith and the Divine will continue to take care of you all.

Samanthi

7/16/2020 07:14:57 pm

May God in his Tender mercy
Lighten the burdens of your sadness and sorrow
and console your grieving heart.

Deepest Sympathies from Samanthi,Suranga,and Sadushi.

Achala and Family

7/16/2020 08:08:39 pm

Missing you, Uncle Wije. So glad that we had the opportunity to chat recently and that I was able to say I love you. We will always love you and be thankful for your Father-like guidance in our lives.

Nancy Depina

7/17/2020 12:58:43 pm

Prei I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and the family to find comfort in this difficult time.
May he Rest In Peace

Maureen & John Tuinei

7/17/2020 01:53:33 pm

Pri to you Shawn and Shahana, our most sincere condolences on the loss of your husband and father. We are blessed to have known VJ as a friend, a Godfather, a brother and Family. VJ doesn't know any stranger because he has a heart that welcomes everyone, and his leadership skills are bar none. Talking to and with him always ends in laughter or it makes you think in depth. VJ we will miss you always. Seeing you in the back wall of the church ❤️ is going to be empty now. Rest in God's Love 💙. Remembering you is no hardship because you left your footprints in our hearts. With love to you Pri , Shawn and Shahana God grant you strength and comfort. Love John & Maureen Tuinei.

Niranjala Tillakaratne

7/19/2020 12:05:21 am

Dear Priyangani and family,

Our deepest condolences on Wije's passing. We are saddened by his loss. Our love and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Love,

Niranjala, Tillak, and Mihiri Tillakaratne

Elizabeth Karunaratne

7/19/2020 09:36:38 am

It is so heartbreaking to lose such a great man as VJ who loved life and was loved by so many. Through his generosity and compassion he taught us how to live in peace. I will miss his great sense of humour. He made me laugh whenever I was with him.
May he Rest In Peace.

Rosita Fualau

7/19/2020 10:34:48 pm

My Dear Alii,

I’m so happy that we spent so much time with you through the years. I’m sadden you will not be here for your first grandchild or our wedding. I will miss our talks at dinner when we are bagging on people or just your presence. I promise to keep your siblings and nieces and nephews close. To watch over and build memories with Nona, Shehana, and Achi. Love You Alii I wish I could of taken you every where we would go but I know we will have apart of you in our new home and the new chapter of our lives.

Andrew Meisake

7/20/2020 11:43:02 am

Dearest VJ,

I am saddened with the news of your passing. If it wasn't for your invitation, I wouldn't have become a member of the Knights of Columbus. You and your family, together with the Knights of Columbus, supported me in my vocation and journey toward the priesthood. Today, I continue my theological studies and formation in Rome. May God welcome you into His kingdom and console your family during this most difficult and precarious moment.

Alofa atu!

prie.dalpathado

1/30/2024 10:02:46 am

I need to contact you.
Thanks
Prie

Sonali, Sam and Sienna

7/21/2020 03:01:08 pm

So saddened by the loss of such a lovely, kind and generous man. You had such a great sense of humour and always saw the bright side of life. We will never forget all the wigs and hats. We are all going to miss you so much- rest in peace dear VJ. All our love to Prie , Sean , Shehana and Loku amma

Susil and Deepthi Perera

7/23/2020 07:33:55 pm

It’s so sad to hear about VJ and please accept our deepest condolences!

John Heywood

7/24/2020 10:42:26 am

My deepest condolences to the entire family. I will truly miss his positive, friendly, and humorous spirit. May the Lord’s peace be with all of you.

Roberta Rogers

7/26/2020 01:28:37 pm

So sorry about your loss. But I truly believe that we are only separated by time at least our concept of it. He is always with you, loving you. Take care my friend. Call me.

Locksley Fernando

7/26/2020 04:33:39 pm

Hello Prie,

Please accept our sympathies during this time of sadness. So sorry for not responding sooner. Assure you and the family of our prayers.

May he rest in peace.

Locksley and Judy

Dean E Mathiowetz

7/28/2020 08:46:49 am

Sorry form your loss at such a young age. thoights and prayers are with you and your family.

Paulette Rinehart

7/28/2020 09:55:45 am

My heart is so saddened to hear of the loss of your husband. Our deepest condolences to your entire family. Please try and find comfort in the good times and memories that you have shared for so many years. VJ Rest Easy my Friend. You will never be forgotten. I will always be thankful to you and your family for always being so kind to me and everyone you met. Rest in Paradise VJ 🙏🏿💋❤️

Joan Burd

7/28/2020 10:56:00 am

Prie, My sincerest condolences to you and your family. May VJ rest in peace.

Ellen Sawyers

7/28/2020 02:43:32 pm

Prie words can’t express the feelings when one has such a great loss. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers. The memories will always be a special part of my life and know all of the very special memories and love will sustain you.
Blessing my Dear Hugs 🤗

Emma Faynberg

8/12/2020 11:25:05 am

I am so sorry for your family loss. It's hard to find words to comfort you.
I feel that I know your whole family from our conversations and the pictures you sent me every year for Christmas.

Stephana (Lopez) Prokschl

8/25/2020 01:47:16 pm

Thank you for all the photos, Prie! VJ was such a good man. I wish you and the kids much love!

Chandana Edirisinghe

11/28/2020 11:34:32 pm

Wijendra Dalpathado, “ Uncle VJ”, to me was both a mentor and a father figure. He was the person in my life who fostered my love of cars and taught me a lot of what I know about vehicle mechanics. I remember the days as a child that I spent at his garage in Los Angeles where he taught me about how cars work. He had a huge love of German cars, especially the BMW 2002 and the Porsche 930 911. He would tell me stories of his younger years and the pair of widebody 2002s that both him and his brother had. I remember as a child getting rides in his bright red 930 911 and his 2002 and remembering how awesome I thought both cars were. It was probably natural, then, when I turned 16 that I went and bought a 2002 myself. There were many times in my high school years where I would take apart my 2002 and my E21 and not know how to put them back together. He was there to bail me out every single time. I learned stick shift in his parts hauler, a beat up 1983 Toyota Pickup with a wooden Nardi steering wheel with Porsche emblem on it. He always helped me out so much: be it life advice, working on cars, or learning how to be a young man. Senior year of highschool when I was debating on whether I should become a mechanic or go to engineering school he was the one who advised me to go into engineering.

He had a big heart, a great sense of humor, and always gave so much of himself. He was active not only with his family, but also with his church and local community. He touched so many people’s lives and I’m sure that there are many people who could give great stories of what he meant to them. I always hoped that the day that I “made it” in professional motorsports that I would be able to invite him to the pit garages at the Long Beach GP or COTA at a team that I worked at to say thank you for everything he did for me. Sadly he left us before that dream ever could come true. Rest in Peace Uncle VJ, I will always think of you every time I go on track and every time I work on my 2002.

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